When choosing your cycle ask yourself this question.
DO THEY MAKE ME BETTER?
Are the people around you, the people you call your friends, your partner(s) make you better?
HOW DO YOU KNOW IF THEY MAKE YOU BETTER OR BITTER?
You know your friends make you better when they hold you accountable. When you make a commitment to yourself or to someone else, when you share your dreams with them; your cycle will hold you accountable to that because they want to see you succeed and become a bigger and better version of yourself. Your cycle is supposed to aspire and inspire you, your cycle will speak greatness into your life and not ignore you, discourage you or become envious of you. If you cycle isn’t in line with you then they will make you bitter.
As you grow you are bound to meet these three types of people in your lifetime.
Unconditionally, there are into you whether you are up or down you can share everything with them.
A good confidant is key. You always need this type of people so they can support you, empower you and mentor you.
The problem with most of us is that we run around with those that are under us as the results we end up feeding those who can’t feed us. We are forever feeding those who can’t feed us and after years of feeding them they start to drain us. Hence, we need a confidant to feed us so we can feed somebody else. Be mindful that I am talking about feed the body, mind and soul (physically, mentally and spiritually).
Confidants are for us, they are with us, they are there to make sure we reach our destiny they will tell us when we are wrong, they will confront us, they will celebrate us, they will value us because they are our confidants.
My beautiful and bold family if you have 2 or 3 confidants in your lifetime then you are indeed blessed beyond measure.
These are not into you they are into what you are for and as long as you are for what they are for they will walk with you and work with you but never think that they are for you because as soon as they meet someone that further their agenda they will leave you because they were never for you they were just for what you were for.
If you are not careful particularly if you are broken or weak (physically, mentally or spiritually) you will mistake your constituents for your confidant and you will think that they are for you when they are really not for you they are just for what you are for and in a long run they will just break your heart and be with somebody who is for what you are for because it was never about you anyway it was about the cover you were presenting.
These people are not for you nor are they for what you are for it’s just that they are against what you are against and they will team up with you to help you fight a greater enemy but don’t be confused or comfortable by their associations because they will only be with you until the victory is accomplished.
Therefore, you can never be upset when your constituents and comrades desert you after a while don’t be upset when they don’t react to your dream the way you expected them to because they were never really with you in the first place.
Bold family be careful who tell your dreams to beautiful people and if you ever find a few people in your life with whom you can share and celebrate your dreams with, those with you through tears and joy, sunshines and rainfalls my sisters and brothers you are blessed.
Know your cycle. Keep your eyes on the GOAL.
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